Mary Ainsworth
SchoolAttachment Theory
Lived1913 – 1999
FromUnited States
Attachment Theory

Mary Ainsworth

Measured how we learn to bond.

A developmental psychologist who, with John Bowlby, defined attachment styles and the idea of the secure base.

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The secure base lets a child venture out, knowing there is somewhere safe to return.
— Mary Ainsworth

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Mary Ainsworth turned attachment from theory into observable science. Through her “Strange Situation” studies of infants and caregivers, she identified secure, anxious and avoidant patterns — early templates that echo through adult love and friendship. Her concept of the secure base explains how trusted closeness lets us explore the world with courage.

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