Core term · Donald Kalsched

The Self-Care System

The inner protector formed in trauma that shields the child — and then keeps shutting life out long afterwards.

Areas of life
Traumarelationshipshealing

Why it matters

Explains why the defences that once saved someone become the obstacle to living now.

How to handle it

Treat the protective part as an ally that no longer knows the danger has passed.

Who shaped this idea

The thinker behind it

From concept to practice

Turn The Self-Care System into a question you can answer.

Psipas asks you one small, honest question at a time — and builds the picture from your answers.