Melanie Klein
The inner world begins in infancy
A founder of object-relations thinking, who traced our emotional lives back to the earliest fantasies of the infant.
techniques
To love maturely is to hold love and hate toward the same person.
Who they were
Melanie Klein looked into the earliest months of life and found there a vivid inner world of love, fear, and aggression. She described how an infant first splits experience into all-good and all-bad — the "paranoid-schizoid position" — before slowly learning to hold both feelings toward the same person in the "depressive position." Working through play rather than words, she opened psychoanalysis to very young children and to the internal "objects" we carry of those we love. Her ideas on splitting, envy, and reparation became cornerstones of object-relations theory.
Famous books
What they left on the shelf
Terms they cared about
Ideas worth knowing
Their big idea
Object Relations Theory
Melanie Klein proposed that from the earliest months we carry inner images of the people we love and fear, and relate to the world through them. Feelings like envy, and the urge to split others into all-good and all-bad, take root in this early inner life.
The approach they founded
Psychoanalysis
The original talking cure. Long, deep exploration of the unconscious, early life and the patterns we repeat.
Questions in their spirit
What they’d ask you
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Carry the idea forward
Klein — What they’d ask you
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