Paul Gilbert
SchoolCompassion-Focused Therapy
Lived1951 – present
FromUnited Kingdom
Compassion-Focused Therapy

Paul Gilbert

Founded compassion-focused therapy for shame and self-criticism.

Founder of compassion-focused therapy, an evolutionary, neuroscience-informed approach that cultivates self-compassion to quiet shame and threat.

Compassion is not a weakness; it takes courage and strength to be compassionate.
— Paul Gilbert

Who they were

Paul Gilbert is a British clinical psychologist who researched evolutionary approaches to mood, shame and self-criticism for over forty years. He developed compassion-focused therapy and compassionate mind training, drawing on attachment, evolutionary theory and affective neuroscience. He headed the Mental Health Research Unit at Derbyshire and founded the Compassionate Mind Foundation; he was awarded the OBE in 2011.

Their big idea

Compassion-Focused Theory

Three emotion systems — threat, drive and soothing — fall out of balance; compassion restores the soothing system.

The approach they founded

Compassion-Focused Therapy

Builds self-compassion to quiet shame and the harsh inner critic that keeps the threat system on.

Questions in their spirit

What they’d ask you

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All questions

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Gilbert — What they’d ask you

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