Core term · Lorna Smith Benjamin

Interpersonal Copying

The way we re-enact early relationships — treating ourselves and others as our caregivers once treated us, or in reaction against it.

Areas of life
Relationshipsattachmentpatterns

Why it matters

It reveals why old relational patterns repeat.

How to handle it

Ask whose voice or treatment you are reliving right now.

Who shaped this idea

The thinker behind it

Bring it to your own life

Questions in this spirit

A term is just an idea until you apply it. Answer one.

All questions

From concept to practice

Turn Interpersonal Copying into a question you can answer.

Psipas asks you one small, honest question at a time — and builds the picture from your answers.