Why it matters
Creates unnecessary distress.
The rigid demands and absolutes we quietly tell ourselves—musts, shoulds, and catastrophes—that turn ordinary setbacks into lasting distress.
Why it matters
Creates unnecessary distress.
How to handle it
Dispute musts and replace them with flexible preferences.
Who shaped this idea
From concept to practice
Psipas asks you one small, honest question at a time — and builds the picture from your answers.